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Offline lauriesa

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RUDE PEOPLE
« on: November 06, 2011, 08:14 AM »
HERES MY RANT!!!I dnt knw y people are so rude.We are here 2 help each other y people think they have a ryt 2 insult us amazes me.My mum taught me 2 respect people jst because we re nt face 2 face u thnk u have a ryt 2 write anything,no u dnt. Some1 insulted  me 2day showed it 2 my sis she totally agreed wth me tat she was rude and insulting.Lets learn 2 respect people no matta wat.Some of us we have parents who taught us morals and respect.
« Last Edit: November 06, 2011, 08:17 AM by lauriesa »
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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #1 on: November 06, 2011, 09:17 AM »
lauriesa- I am sorry that you feel a member has insulted you...that's not what STP is about. For the most part we are a very friendly community who respects each others feelings and I'm sure no one would purposefully insult you, however, we are all entitled to our thoughts/feelings. The key is to not let anything that is said affect you or get you down....shrug it off, it'll be okay and I'm sure that in the future we will all make you feel well loved and respected  :-*
 

Offline lauriesa

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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #2 on: November 06, 2011, 09:37 AM »
u knw wat im fyn now,im a kind of person who has 2 yell,scream or in this case write how angry i a am.than all is forgiven nd forgotten.i love this site met a lot of great people who re willing to help.it amazes me how  people have good hearts nd re willing 2 help othas.my point is dnt try 2 insult or write rude stuff.some of us re senstive abt things. ;D
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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #3 on: July 03, 2012, 03:36 AM »
I wud sya u cant clap with single hand, ther wil mistakes 4rom both sides.
 

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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #4 on: July 07, 2012, 01:01 PM »
No offense but some of you people really need to learn how to spell properly. Before you gripe about it not being your native language, let me preempt you by saying that English is actually my 3rd language. (I can speak 3 and read 4 languages fluently). Please respect others (and yourself) by at least trying to use the proper spelling instead of short form.
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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #5 on: July 11, 2012, 02:49 AM »
Thanx Nouda,
sorry for spell mistakes,
I M also fluent in 4 languages and english as 4 th language, its habit of using networking sites, don't u use any social networking sites
 

Offline lauriesa

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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #6 on: July 11, 2012, 07:48 AM »
gosh guys this was so long ago I even forgot about this post  some1 pissed me of I even forgot their name somtyms u just need to vent now it seems funny  :D :D and embaressing  ^-^ ^-^ ^-^ ^-^
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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #7 on: July 11, 2012, 09:56 AM »
doing mistake is a human nature so dont lose ur control and get hiper, just need to think with the cold mind.
 

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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #8 on: July 11, 2012, 12:07 PM »
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gosh guys this was so long ago I even forgot about this post  some1 pissed me of I even forgot their name somtyms u just need to vent now it seems funny  :D :D and embaressing  ^-^ ^-^ ^-^ ^-^

Look how long ago this was too lol. Were you a newbie? Anyways I'm glad you stuck around.  :-*
 

Offline lauriesa

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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #9 on: July 11, 2012, 01:47 PM »
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Look how long ago this was too lol. Were you a newbie? Anyways I'm glad you stuck around.  :-*

yeah I was a newbie wen I wrote this now it seems dumb and stupid.oh how we learn and grow up LOL:D :D :D Now I love all of you in PTS even rude people :-*
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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #10 on: July 23, 2012, 03:46 PM »
Tell me about it. People are rude because they didn't learn their manner when they were a child.
 

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Why are some people rude?
« Reply #11 on: June 07, 2013, 07:57 AM »
Or they might be 'rebelling' against their parents, especially if the parents were strict. And some people were never taught to be considerate and polite.

A lot of people are in physical pain and it sometimes makes them very 'intolerant', short-tempered, etc.
And even more people are suffering from 'emotional' pain;
- their conscience is bothering them about something they've done and they feel bad,
- they don't feel good about themselves (usually as a result of being abused as a child), etc.

I'll often read a 'romance' novel where the 'hero' doesn't say please or thank you when he speaks to the heroine.  It sounds like he's telling her what to do rather than asking her.  And the strongest example of this (I've observed) is in a lot of bdsm novels where the guy is rude and disrespectful to the woman.  The best 'master'/someone in a position of power is someone who earns the respect of those who serve him.  One way to do this is to speak to others with politeness, the way we would like to be spoken to.

When people are rude to us, it's very tempting to respond in the same way but it often escalates the problem: then they feel justified in responding in a rude manner to us.  But if we respond by being firm but polite, if often helps to diffuse the situation.  At the very least, we get to demonstrate politeness. ;)

When I read Lauriesa's post, I didn't know Lauriesa was talking about a member of PTS.
 

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Re: RUDE PEOPLE
« Reply #12 on: June 11, 2013, 02:52 AM »
Hi

yes ur right lauresia to say that that some people do come across as rude sometimes
its coz they dont have to face consequences "fake name online , fake id and fake personality altogether"
we are from different cultures and country everyone has so much difference but we are educated enough to treat everyone with equality and "real" us


and yes with time it do seem funny :)

they say kindness kills rudeness

but yea i never come across rudeness here in pts  :-*everyone is so helpful and so humble down to earth

mayabelle  ^-^ wish everyone can be insightful like u

« Last Edit: June 11, 2013, 02:54 AM by strawberry »
 

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